{"id":10180,"date":"2013-01-24T12:29:49","date_gmt":"2013-01-24T02:29:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/?p=10180"},"modified":"2015-02-15T19:28:28","modified_gmt":"2015-02-15T09:28:28","slug":"this-is-40","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/?p=10180","title":{"rendered":"This Is 40"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisisfortymovie.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17163\" src=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisisfortymovie.jpg\" alt=\"thisisfortymovie\" width=\"500\" height=\"741\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisisfortymovie.jpg 500w, http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisisfortymovie-202x300.jpg 202w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Director: \u00a0<\/strong>Judd Apatow<br \/>\n<strong>Writer: \u00a0<\/strong>Judd Apatow<br \/>\n<strong>Cast: \u00a0<\/strong>Leslie Mann, Paul Rudd, Maude Apatow, Iris Apatow, Jason Segel<\/p>\n<p><em><span class=\"dropcap\">T<\/span>his Is 40<\/em> is Judd Apatow&#8217;s &#8216;sort of&#8217; sequel to <em>Knocked Up,<\/em> which shifts its focus onto the lives of Debbie and Paul, a well-to-do suburbanite couple who live in a big house, have two daughters and are trying to make adjustments to their lives as they enter middle age.<\/p>\n<p><em>This Is 40<\/em> doesn&#8217;t really concern itself with any major story arc.\u00a0 Instead, it offers up a slice of life, a glimpse into how one couple deals with the challenges of maintaining a relationship twenty years after the honeymoon.\u00a0 Clocking in at a running time of 135 minutes, this gives the film plenty of breadth to explore sexuality, careers, financial struggles, health, child-rearing and parental care.\u00a0 The film bounces between these topics in a busy week leading up to Paul&#8217;s birthday party.<\/p>\n<p>I find my mileage varies a lot with Judd Apatow&#8217;s work.\u00a0 I&#8217;m a huge fan of his tv series <em>Freaks and Geeks<\/em> but some of the films he produces I find to be rather samey as though they&#8217;re churned out on an assembly line.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t find that to be the case here.\u00a0 <em>This Is 40<\/em> is a very personal work and much of the minutae and day-to-day observations in the film ring true and feel like they are inspired by a snapshot from Apatow&#8217;s own family.\u00a0 Given that Apatow&#8217;s wife and two daughters are cast as the on-screen family, I take it that Apatow projected onto Rudd as an on-screen vessel for himself and his own musings about turning forty.<\/p>\n<p>I liked <em>This Is<\/em> <em>40<\/em> a lot.\u00a0 I like Paul and Debbie in their warts and all portrayal.\u00a0 Both characters are brought to life through lively and colourful performances from Paul Rudd and Leslie Mann.\u00a0 As is typically the case with long term relationship strain, the crux of the issue lies with communication and changing life goals.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisis40.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-10181\" src=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisis40.jpg\" alt=\"thisis40\" width=\"630\" height=\"419\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisis40.jpg 630w, http:\/\/www.thefatwebsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/thisis40-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 630px) 100vw, 630px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Debbie aspires to be ever-improving as a couple and creates checklists for learning new things and shedding vices.\u00a0 Crucially she fails to get Paul&#8217;s genuine buy-in for many of the challenges she sets for him.\u00a0 Paul on the other hand, is happy with his lot in life.\u00a0 He doesn&#8217;t see why he has to give up eating cupcakes or why Debbie insists on counselling and couple therapy.\u00a0 A fear of disappointment and conflict drives Paul to become stressed and introverted.\u00a0 He cannot bring himself to tell Debbie about the financially disastrous state of his business and he retreats into the toilet to play <em>Bejewelled<\/em> on the iPad for escape.<\/p>\n<p>The tension in Paul and Debbie&#8217;s relationship is both exacerbated and relieved by the presence of their two daughters, Sadie and Charlotte.\u00a0 At times, they are the catalyst for bringing Paul and Debbie together (e.g when they clash with another parent from school) and at other times, their bickering and neediness can interupt a rare chance to have sex.<\/p>\n<p>Despite how the film has been framed as a comedy in its trailer and marketing, much of the interaction between Paul and Debbie is fraught with conflict.\u00a0 A lot of the levity in the film is provided by the film&#8217;s supporting cast, a Who&#8217;s Who of stars from Apatow&#8217;s other films.\u00a0 They couch some of the film&#8217;s more difficult scenes with lightness and humour.\u00a0 I have to commend John Lithgow for his performance as Debbie&#8217;s estranged father.\u00a0 In a film where people are dialling up the volume of their personalities, Lithgow gives a thoughtful and gently understated performance that was a highlight amongst the crowd.<\/p>\n<p>Given its length and lack of an overarching story, <em>This Is 40 <\/em>is probably not everybody&#8217;s cup of tea but I can always get behind and appreciate a personal work like this.\u00a0 <em>This Is 40<\/em> is funny, relatable and genuine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This Is 40 minutes too 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